This is a sneak peek of an excerpt from my soon to be published book, The Other Side of Things, Chapter 1, Love & Relationships. I will share topic 2 of the first chapter.
Please take note. When I write about certain relationship topics, I will throw in a few of
my personal experiences that I’ve had in the past however, not all
topics in this book pertain to me, especially in this chapter, so PLEASE
no assumptions. Please
note, I only state my opinion about the topics I’ve written, no intentional
personal attacks on any group of people. I am being real and that means I may state personal opinions about some people
I don’t know very well, sorry.
*Since 2004 I have been using a personal
blog to rant and rave or vent about almost anything that interest me. For those
who know who I am, what you’re about to read, may surprise you or maybe not. My
blog was once called A Lover’s Blog and that’s where I will start in this
chapter.
Topic
2: Should a
Relationship be based on Sex Alone?
NO! If
you base your relationship solely on sex, then likely it won’t last, especially
if the wrong word goes in the right ear. If a woman catches you in a lie, she
won’t trust you. If you think that you can find someone else better, then let
her go. She’s probably better off without you. However, a
woman scorned is not a good thing and using women will backfire eventually. If
for some reason, you want to talk or see her again in the future, it won’t
happen, especially if you burned her and blocked her on whatever social media
website you belong to!
*You can block someone online, but you can’t block them in real Life.
You’ll eventually bumped into them.”
When a relationship is
based on sex, it rests on a shaky foundation. They may decide to move on
because they feel you’re using them and you’re not communicating enough. Maybe
you don’t call them and text them after your intimate encounters, you leave
them hanging or waiting. That’s disrespectful! If it’s only SEX you want from them,
then remember, there are no chains
holding you, especially if you’re not married.
For
both men and women: If
you're not satisfied with the relationship, then leave. You shouldn't have to put up with any kind of abuse.
The
only chains that hold you are the chains you force upon yourself.
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