Monday, July 9, 2018

NEW Book! The Other Side of Things


This is a sneak peek of an excerpt from my soon to be published book, The Other Side of Things, Chapter 1, Love & Relationships. I will share topic 2 of the first chapter.


Please take note. When I write about certain relationship topics, I will throw in a few of my personal experiences that I’ve had in the past however, not all topics in this book pertain to me, especially in this chapter, so PLEASE no assumptions. Please note, I only state my opinion about the topics I’ve written, no intentional personal attacks on any group of people. I am being real and that means I may state personal opinions about some people I don’t know very well, sorry.

*Since 2004 I have been using a personal blog to rant and rave or vent about almost anything that interest me. For those who know who I am, what you’re about to read, may surprise you or maybe not. My blog was once called A Lover’s Blog and that’s where I will start in this chapter. 

Topic 2: Should a Relationship be based on Sex Alone?

     NO! If you base your relationship solely on sex, then likely it won’t last, especially if the wrong word goes in the right ear. If a woman catches you in a lie, she won’t trust you. If you think that you can find someone else better, then let her go. She’s probably better off without you. However, a woman scorned is not a good thing and using women will backfire eventually. If for some reason, you want to talk or see her again in the future, it won’t happen, especially if you burned her and blocked her on whatever social media website you belong to!



*You can block someone online, but you can’t block them in real Life. You’ll eventually bumped into them.”

  When a relationship is based on sex, it rests on a shaky foundation. They may decide to move on because they feel you’re using them and you’re not communicating enough. Maybe you don’t call them and text them after your intimate encounters, you leave them hanging or waiting. That’s disrespectful! If it’s only SEX you want from them, then remember, there are no chains holding you, especially if you’re not married.

For both men and women: If you're not satisfied with the relationship, then leave. You shouldn't have to put up with any kind of abuse.


  The only chains that hold you are the chains you force upon yourself. 


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